Grownups resolve problems by coming here and doing like you said --
let's come here and talk this out. Let's make it better. Let's put
a suggestion in the appropriate forum, and let's see what the company
does about it. Etc.
If people leave my downline without a word, I don't assume the worst.
I don't assume anything at all, in fact. I just wish them well.
I don't take it personally, because I know
that I have done the best I could, and that no one's actions really have
anything to do with me or with GDI either. It's all about them and where
they're at. Their life, and mine, is bigger than GDI. So, onward we go.
"Sponsor" to me is like "Guide". Not "babysitter", not "handholder",
not "mindreader", not "scapegoat."
To me, quitting GDI and blaming it on the sponsor and/or GDI is equal to
a recovering alcoholic going out after years of sobriety, getting drunk
and blaming his actions on his sponsor and/or his twelve step group.
You hit the nail on the head when you said "what they expected."
I give my downliners all the same tools I have. Sometimes what I expect
is not necessarily what happens, either. But that's life. And that's business.
It's not a question of "what should someone have done for me," but a
question of "what should I be doing for myself to either make it better
or adjust my expectations". If GDI isn't up to someone's expectations,
then they should leave. No company is meant for everyone. Best wishes
to 'em.
Is there anything you can actively do to prevent this problem?
Aside from getting ourselves magic wands.... nope, I'm thinkin not.
Onward, friends.