Hi to everyone!
There are some great books and cd's out there for motivational and positive thinking. These are fantastic. I have been involved in networking for a while now and am very involved with the way in which we succeed or fail. Everything is created in your thoughts first before action is applied. Have you ever heard of the saying, "if you think you can, or you think you cant, you are right". It is difficult to be positive all of the time but that is what networking is all about, somebody to lean on and feed off. So many negative people around who are scared of failure, they would rather not do something in the first place and this way they feel safe. But this is ok, dont waste energy to worry of what they might think. Never turn your back on them, as they one day may need you. These people swim with the in crowd. To be successful in this world you need to hold your head up high and swim the other way, sure it is going to be against the tide but keep swimming and soon enough you will get a break. Help enough other people to learn to do the same and you will be rewarded. Dont think what you can get from this, think who can you help to get from this and yours will come. You see, there are plenty of people who think just like us who are looking for something just like this, we just need to be patient and get ready.
I hope this helps. Keep swimming my friends